It's official.
A "first word" was added to Malcolm's baby book over the weekend ...
"Mama!"
My heart swells just thinking about it.
What an awesome moment!
May 23, 2011
May 20, 2011
window seat
One of my new favorites ...
I can't believe how old he is beginning to look!
No longer a baby, but a total little boy ...
I can't believe how old he is beginning to look!
No longer a baby, but a total little boy ...
May 19, 2011
huggable
Within the past week or so, Malcolm has taken to running into my legs (full force) and wrapping his arms around them for a great big toddler-sized hug.
I can be standing in the kitchen preparing dinner, brushing my teeth at the sink in the bathroom, or just standing still for a moment, taking a breath and planning my next move and ...
BAM!
There he is.
Running at me from across the room or around the corner.
Hugging my legs and catching me off guard ... A huge grin plastered across his face.
He may not be able to say it yet, but his actions proclaim it from the rooftops.
This kid loves his Mama!
I can be standing in the kitchen preparing dinner, brushing my teeth at the sink in the bathroom, or just standing still for a moment, taking a breath and planning my next move and ...
BAM!
There he is.
Running at me from across the room or around the corner.
Hugging my legs and catching me off guard ... A huge grin plastered across his face.
He may not be able to say it yet, but his actions proclaim it from the rooftops.
This kid loves his Mama!
May 17, 2011
sunny disposition
It's sort of depressing that the photos I snapped a week ago are already outdated (weatherwise) by the time I am able to use them for the Tuesday "baby fashion" post!
The sunny, gorgeous weather in the following photos has currently given way to something much more rainy and cold ...
At least Malcolm's naturally positive attitude is a bit more difficult to alter!
The sunny, gorgeous weather in the following photos has currently given way to something much more rainy and cold ...
At least Malcolm's naturally positive attitude is a bit more difficult to alter!
Sasquatch tee-shirt: Circo (on sale for $1.75)
Pants: Garanimals (thrifted for $0.50)
Socks: Old Navy (gift)
Shoes: Stride Rite (thrifted for $2.50)
Pants: Garanimals (thrifted for $0.50)
Socks: Old Navy (gift)
Shoes: Stride Rite (thrifted for $2.50)
May 13, 2011
mother (in-law?) knows best
It's no secret that I have been anxiously awaiting the moment Malcolm decides to say his first word.
From the time he was one year old, I was giddy with anticipation.
Would he say "Mama?"
Maybe "Dada?"
Something else entirely?
It really didn't matter as long as it was a real word.
And I truly believe that is the case. That Malcolm has to choose to do it.
I strongly believe that he has all the tools necessary ... He can hear properly, his mouth and palate are formed correctly, he has plenty of verbal stimulation by way of conversations and books being read ... I don't think there is any reason for concern regarding this small delay.
My son is strong-willed ... Just like his mother.
He will talk when he finally feels like doing so.
Unfortunately, my mother-in-law sees the same things I do and finds reason for concern ... But, I should add, that is her way. She is a worrier. Anxious. Apt to blow simple things out of proportion. An over-reactor. To her, Malcolm's speech delay is a sign of problems. Something that should be looked into sooner rather than later ...
But I (respectfully) disagree.
While I certainly want what's best for my son (as I know she does, too), I don't see the rush in taking him for a hearing test right now. His doctor and I have been monitoring his language development since he was born and he will be tested if adequate progress is not made by the time he goes back for his two-year appointment (in only four months). In my mind, there is no reason to spend the time or money on a diagnostic test that will, most likely, come back normal anyway.
It doesn't help that my husband is right on board with his mom.
"What's the big deal?" He wonders. "There's no harm in having him tested early."
Which is true, too.
And he is the father, afterall ... So his opinion (no matter how strongly I may disagree) matters.
This is one of those times where I wish more people read (and commented) on this blog! I could definitely use some differing opinions on the issue ... And personal experiences to either back up my mother-in-law (and husband) or myself!
My gut tells me that my child is perfectly normal and that it's not a big deal to take a "wait and see" approach until he turns two ...
So far, my gut has been pretty good at this whole "mothering" thing ...
From the time he was one year old, I was giddy with anticipation.
Would he say "Mama?"
Maybe "Dada?"
Something else entirely?
It really didn't matter as long as it was a real word.
And I truly believe that is the case. That Malcolm has to choose to do it.
I strongly believe that he has all the tools necessary ... He can hear properly, his mouth and palate are formed correctly, he has plenty of verbal stimulation by way of conversations and books being read ... I don't think there is any reason for concern regarding this small delay.
My son is strong-willed ... Just like his mother.
He will talk when he finally feels like doing so.
Unfortunately, my mother-in-law sees the same things I do and finds reason for concern ... But, I should add, that is her way. She is a worrier. Anxious. Apt to blow simple things out of proportion. An over-reactor. To her, Malcolm's speech delay is a sign of problems. Something that should be looked into sooner rather than later ...
But I (respectfully) disagree.
While I certainly want what's best for my son (as I know she does, too), I don't see the rush in taking him for a hearing test right now. His doctor and I have been monitoring his language development since he was born and he will be tested if adequate progress is not made by the time he goes back for his two-year appointment (in only four months). In my mind, there is no reason to spend the time or money on a diagnostic test that will, most likely, come back normal anyway.
It doesn't help that my husband is right on board with his mom.
"What's the big deal?" He wonders. "There's no harm in having him tested early."
Which is true, too.
And he is the father, afterall ... So his opinion (no matter how strongly I may disagree) matters.
This is one of those times where I wish more people read (and commented) on this blog! I could definitely use some differing opinions on the issue ... And personal experiences to either back up my mother-in-law (and husband) or myself!
My gut tells me that my child is perfectly normal and that it's not a big deal to take a "wait and see" approach until he turns two ...
So far, my gut has been pretty good at this whole "mothering" thing ...
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